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The Irony of Love

Love-- like Life, has its own irony . One day you find yourself in love with the person you hate the most. And sometimes you find yourself in the middle of two persons showing different facets of love: one who's willing to sacrifice everything for Love and the other who takes this magical word for granted, thus ignoring the magical feeling of Love the other has to offer. So rare that we'll find true love wherein both parties are sharing mutual level of love.  That's what the magic is all about. That maybe the reason why some people are madly inlove with love. And with the same reason why some people would do anything just to experience this once in a life time love. Love has its own ironies... Amidst the harshness it all gives us, still we pursue this thing called love simply because the magic it gives us is incomparable.

Bitter Changes? Think twice...

“There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.” We are who we are because God made us like this, and He made us with greater purpose. Trying to change ones ideals for another's is such a foolish act. There are things that we need to learn and make a change for the better but we need to align these changes with God's ideals and plans. How would we know if it is His will or not? I'm not really sure too.. One thing's for sure, HE hears ou

Loving Liberty [A blog for mother's day]

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When I was younger, I guess up till now I used to depend to what my mom and big sister would have to say about a certain circumstance and some minor decisions in my everyday life. I must admit, that even up to now their insights mean a lot to me even when I have gab in my life right now..   Although my mom and sis isn't physically living with me, their words of wisdom has a pinch in my heart. I haven't appreciated this life alone not until this joy come up to me this day that made me appreciate the liberty of being a mom to my 3-year old daughter.   I guess I must be thankful that my ya ya didn't went back soon as what we have talked about. So I got home early today since I only asked a favor from my uncle to look after gab for the night..   My normal routine during normal office days are as follows- would normally take post shift OT till 8am , eat breakfast anywhere , go home at around noon ,  and take a power nap- maximum of 5 hours.   When my nanny didn't

Celebration of Life [My Birthday Realizations]

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Life is God- Given. The Lord has paid the price of dying on the cross for us to enjoy the life we are enjoying now, guilt- free of sins. Even before we come out of our mother's womb, we are already forgiven. That's how vast our Lord's love is. On my 26th Birthday, thought of celebrating it out of town with my loved ones, away from everybody else. Due to unexpected circumstances, my VL was disapproved. Frustration engulfed me from the day it happened till a day before my birthday, not realizing the reason for this celebration. As my big day approached, I soon realized the real reason behind celebrating one's Life, that suddenly changed my outlook in life. God has allowed us to live this life we have now so we can, at some point give light and inspiration to others. In fact, we should celebrate life everyday. Our big day should be celebrated with the Lord's presence and our loved ones even in it's simplest form. Ideally, we take this time to relax and pam

One Gloomy day..

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Gloomy is a day when the heightened, overly heart-pounding emotions reached its peak and there's no other way but to go the opposite of it. Nothing can be more frustrating than switching from one magical moment to an erring feeling you wanna get rid of as soon as possible. Although you know for a fact that you have all the reasons to be thankful for, be glad and be happy. There's this unexplainable gush of emotions that spoils every beautiful thing that's waiting for you to reveal in a day. This gloomy feeling is not brought by this gloomy and rainy atmosphere, neither can be caused by someone passing by to whack your day out due to some selfish reason. This unwanted feeling is more of being a CHOICE for after every gloomy day, there's always a wonderful reason to smile.

"So in to you... [If...]"

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Find someone who can sit back and relax with you after a very tiring week. Find someone who smiles at you no matter how bad a day turned out for both of you. Find someone who open-heartedly picks you up at the office/ offer a ride back home no matter how exhausted he may feel. Find someone who consider doing things for you because that's what they feel like doing, not because they're told to so. Find someone who cant live a day without seeing you, be with you, kiss you and hug you. Find someone who appreciates all efforts you're doing , and who doesnt look back of what was done before . Find someone who carries out your fushia pink bag with head held not thinking of what anybodyelse's thinking. Find someone who can make you sit and relax for three hours talking about things in your life whether its the same old story or not.  Find someone who cooks for you, and will allow you to cook for them too and still appreciates it no matter how frisky it was don

Me and my shoes.

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Choosing shoes is like choosing the one you'll love . First, you'll get attracted by this one thing that caught your  attention. It could be a little detail no one else normally sees, can be the way it fits you and the way it makes you feel good whenever you wear it and bring it wherever you go.  Then, you try it on see how far it will go . If it lasts less than 6 months then at least you had the best of times together before it wears out. Either you fix it to keep it in a storage for memoirs' sake or you fix it and give to someone else who can take care of it better than what you did, thinking that the person whom you'll give it to would be very happy with it. Of course you have to think twice, thrice and think it over, again and again before you give it out if you really really love the shoes! or better yet, don't consider giving it out at all.. LOL.. There'll be tough times with your shoes and seems like stains of the mess done cant be removed ,   so